mirror...
nope, I ain't referring to typical mirrors that retail outlets are selling, but a virtual mirror in everyone's mind, or heart....
I think before any words come out from one's mouth, it should go through this so-called virtual mirror filtration... especially hurtful words towards someone (whether or not the said someone is physically there...).
why...?? because I notice lots of time, when hurtful words such as "idiots", "assholes", "brainless bitch", "so-hais" are thrown by close friends towards another mutual close friends when the targeted person(s) are physically not there to hear it, friends who heard it (in this case, myself) felt weird...
the 1st thing that went thru my mind is... "wtf man.... why wanna say liddat leh...??"
2nd thought: "seriously, ur level just free fall-ed, and I ain't gonna tell u too much stuff from now on... coz if u can say these stuff in front of me, I can be sure that I have been the targeted person when I'm not around..."
3rd "u urself ain't that great a person in the first place... so why don't u look into ur own pee to see ur own reflection (attitude/manner/act) before talking bad about other friend(s)...
IF one can pause awhile, and reflect on the things that they are about to say, as well as think of the consequences after saying it & the damages that might be done and how it would reflect back on him/her self... I think alot of conflicts, hatred and pain can be avoided, and friendships saved...... =))
